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Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Syukur yang tak terucap!

Hari ini, baru aku menyedari betapa aku harus sesungguhnya bersyukur, bersyukur atas segala kasih sayang dan jawapan doa yang Tuhan beri untuk aku. . Dah masuk 2 bulan aku kerja, tak ada lagi aku cerita kan betapa aku gembira sebenarnya bila dapat kerja ni. Mungkin sebab beberapa minggu2 yang awal aku ada kesukaran sikit menyesuaikan diri dengan tempat kerja, keadaan sekeliling, rakan sekerja, sistem kerja, buat mula2 aku tak seronok kerja ni.Tapi sekarang, sejujurnya, aku tak lah master lagi kerja aku ni, tapi aku rasa aku dah mula masuk dengan kerja aku, aku dah mula enjoy kerja aku, dan aku dah mula dapat momentum tu ! :-)Dan aku dah mula berani untuk plan apa nak buat dengan kerja aku di masa hadapan.
Ya, bersyukur sangat aku:
1. Sebab ini first keja yang aku pergi interview, terus dapat, tengok, Tuhan sangat2 cekap! :-)
2. Sebab aku dapat kerja dekat hometown sendiri. Perjalanan pergi kerja pun tak sampai 20 minit. Dekat bukan, walau aku belum ada transport sendiri, tapi syukur ada kawan yang kerja kat balai polis yang aku boleh tumpang hari2. :-)
3. Walau gaji aku tak besar mana, cukup untuk aku dan keluarga aku! Sekarang aku dah mula ambil alih sedia keperluan rumah, beli makan minum, bayar bil air letrik segala, walau banyak yang mencurah tapi, tak terasa bila semua tu untuk family tersayang. lagipun dah memang tanggungjawab aku bayar balik semua pengorbanan keluarga aku untuk hantar aku belajar jauh-jauh selama ni (ah, macam dalam drama pula).
4. aku sekarang sentiasa dekat dengan family aku. Dah tak perlu emo2 nangis2 macam dulu bila rindu family. hehe. Dan paling seronok, setiap hari aku lihat anak-anak buah aku memebesar depan mata. Seronok lihat perkembangan mereka.
5. Wei, TAHUN NI AKU SAMBUT KRISMAS KAT RUMAH!!!! WAH SERONOK NYA :-)

Sesungguhnya Tuhan sentiasa tahu apa yang terbaik untuk kita, bila waktu yang sesuai dan bagaimana semua ni harus jadi. Dia tahu segalanya.  Jangan risau k kawan2 kalau lambat kamu dapat apa yang kamu inginkan, the time will come! Bersyukur sentiasa atas kebaikan Tuhan.


God bless,


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Monday, September 30, 2013

Close Friendship.def

How exactly you define a close friendship?
Some maybe want to always keep in touch with each others, sharing stories almost everyday. This normally goes with one with soft heart, usually a girl.
Some maybe goes with , as long as we remember each other & do contact each other once a while, we are ok! This normally goes with one with strong heart, usually a guy.
Some maybe keep fighting with each other, but still they are each other shoulder to cry on. This normally goes with very long term friendship, childhood friend, usually girl-boy close friendship.
I would say, I clearly fall under the first group. I used to be very sensitive & afraid of being forgotten by my friend, especially my close one. Then the paranoid me will non-stop contacting that friend & being sensitive when I did not get the respond as what I wish, fear of losing a friend, especially when distance involved.
But, a true friend of mine finally make me understand, this is not how a real friendship should work. Friendship is not only about me getting all the attention I want, but for my friends to also have time for themself, space for them to be at their best. The number of text messages or phone call you exchanged with each other does not directly proportional with how strong is your friendship. Its about the heart! And its all about trust!
No matter which one you choose, it must fit both side well. You & your friend must understand & accept each other well. Always be open to each other, friendship won't work one way, it prefer two-ways.Talk, discuss & argue sometimes!Argument does help you in understand your friends more, but bear in mind be wise in your argument, its not about who's right who's wrong, its about getting to know each other better & learn to respect each other more.
Friendship loves this formula, Give more, expect less! And never ever treat your friends the way you want them to treat you.You may liking it to dead, but not your friends. Treat them the way they want it.
Read Gary Chapman Five Love languages book &  learn to understand your friend love language, it does help a lot!
A friend is the angel sent by God, do appreciate them for every angel comes with lots of blessing.
To a friend somewhere out there, I'm sorry for taking too much time to understand all this.Thanks for the lesson learned. God bless our friendship.Take care there & always remember, you always be in my prayers.

Hugs ,

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