hey!Betulkah dia my Mr.Right??

This post is as the answer for what my friend as me just now..so the question is:

How do you know that "he" is your mr. perfect, the one that will be your future husband..macamana kamu akan tahu /akan rasa "dialah ini yang akan jadi teman hidup saya"?Is he the one??

Level addmath(saya sangat teruk subjek ni) punya soalan...hahahaha...

Actually mungkin saya bukan orang yang tepat tuk ditanya, pengalaman bercinta pun cinta monyet jak..ahaha..just wanna share my opinion lah k...to know he is your Mr.Right, memang akan ambil masa, bukan at the first sight, terus "owh, ni lah bakal husband saya"..Perkahwinan bukan satu perjudian kan, when we married that guy, kita sudah bersumpah "till death do us apart"..maksudnya, takkan ada peluang untuk cuba2 dulu, so the moment we choose that guy untuk jadi husband kita, kita kena betul2 yakin, he is the one..still, saya belum jawab soalan sebenarnya..haha..

For me lah kan, tanda2 "he is the one"

1. Kamu bukan sahaja jatuh sayang dengan "dia", tetapi dengan seluruh keluarganya dan dengan orang-orang yang terdekat dengan dia..you feel strongly attach with his family walaupun baru sekali jumpa mereka..Saya percaya time kamu bercouple, paling kurang pun sekali kamu akan ke rumah "dia", jumpa keluarga..And saat pertemuan itu, hati kamu akan automatic berkata"Inilah keluarga yang saya akan hidup bersama, inilah keluarga yang akan jadi sebahagian dari saya suatu hari nanti"...kamu akan rindu mama bapa dia, adik beradik dia bila lama x jumpa.If you ever feel this, means itu petanda terbesar..

2. Kamu sudah sibuk melakar impian masa depan yang serius..Maksudnya, planning tu bukan setakat kamu sebutkan sahaja, tetapi kamu sudah berkira-kira macamana mau merealisasikan impian2 itu..misalnya, dalam hati kamu, kamu mahu ada sebuah rumah sendiri bersama dia bila dah kahwin..kamu akan start google design rumah yang cantik2, kira2 budget n so on, sedangkan mungkin, dia belum jadi boyfren kamu pun..tapi kamu sudah ada impian yang sangat lengkap untuk kehidupan bersama dia kelak..ada beza jatuh cinta angau dengan jatuh  cinta dengan your mr.right..kalau angau, impian kamu hanya angan2 mat jenin, tapi kalau he is your mr.right, you will worked out that plan even though you still not own him yet.

3. You will never feel the same to the other person as what you feel to him..mungkin kamu pernah bercinta berkali-kali, tapi kamu tidak pernah rasa apa yang kamu rasa dengan dia..dia ada x-factor itu...berpuluh yang kamu jumpa, & dia jak buat kamu rasa berlainan, maksudnya, betul.."he is the one"..jangan tanya saya x-factor yang macamana sebab lain perempuan, lain x-factor yang akan dia cari..:-)

ini yang saya dapat fikir buat masa ni..pendek kata, "your heart will tell you so, if he is the one."..

mari p cari buku ni...:-)

p/s:harap saya menjawab soalan..mok tido dulu, mimpikan my mr.right..hihi..kawan2 yang dah ada mr.right tu, tolong jawab soalan ni k, i believe you gals have better answer than me based on your experience..nyte..salam sayang..

jesus envelope

Hari ni tengah kemas bilik yang sudah berkurun lama tidak dikemas, terjumpa 3 envelop coklat yang menyimpan banyak cerita..envelop-envelop ni  dinamakan "Jesus Envelope". Actually envelope ni akan ada dalam setiap camp church yang kami sertai, etc:GIFT Weekend Welcoming Fellowship(WWF) & MJCC Southern Syiok(SS).ok, apa tujuan envelope ni:

~setiap orang akan dibagi 1 envelop yang akan ditulis nama mereka atas envelope tu.then, envelope tu akan digantung di satu sudut.sepanjang camp berlangsung, anyone can leave any message, kata2 perangsang, warmth welcoming message, nota cinta ka, apa2 jak lah ke dalam sampul surat orang yang mereka rasa mok bagi.kira macam satu cara untuk giving each other encouragement jugalah..ok, lets check what I have..

ok, nampaknya ,sa ada simpan 3 envelope jak, 1 is missing .huhu

this 1 is my 1st Jesus envelope..I got it during WWF 2008, the 1st event that I join as a Gifter.So, kira time ni saya junior, and ini juga merupakan sampul surat yang paling tebal..ahaha..I really love all the messages inside..

• welcome to GIFT Family
• Best wishes 4 u
• nice to meet you
• feel free to ask guidance from seniors
• we always by your side
• if you have any trouble or problem, we are here to help
• aktif2 lah di GIFT

yang paling tak boleh tahan, meseg yang satu ni:

• banyak cakap pula ko kan, tapi saya suka juga yang banyak cakap ni..hehe(sepa yang tulis ni dulu?baik mengaku.ahaha..)

Macam-macam lagi lah bunyi mesej dia..mungkin saya tidak pernah luahkan ini, tapi the 1st time I join WWF, join GIFT, their warmth welcome really touched me..Everyone are there to be your sisters, your brothers. They really rub away all the worries inside my fragile heart when 1st I came to UTM.Saya ingat lagi, saya datang sendiri, tanpa kenal sesiapa pun di UTM, kalau tiada GIFT FAMILY, saya rasa kan 1st sem dulu mungkin sejarah akan berulang~HOMESICK ~ahaha..nasib baik ada mereka yang terima saya, not only as junior, but as sister..luv ya:-)

 

Yang ni pula, time Southern Syiok (SS) 2008 di Majodi,Plentong.Pun masih lagi di awal2 alam kehidupan di UTM, jadi ini event pertama MJCC yang saya join..malu-malu taik kambing lagi time ni..bha, jom check apa pula antara "nota2 cinta" sampul kedua ni:-)

• ko macam orang Sabah ni, tapi orang Sarawak pula..ahaha
• nice to meet you
• keep in touch
• thanks sebab terus support aktiviti 
• all the best
• idup emie
• jangan nakal-nakal(saya nakal ka dulu??.ahha)
• lets your faith grow in your heart like a tree(super like this 1)

yang paling lucu..ada juga:

• Selamat hari merdeka(ahahha-mang patriotik orang yg tulis ni.tapi ngam juga, kalo x silap SS08 ni time 30-31 Ogos macam tu..)

With my MJCC members, i feel like my family grow bigger & bigger each day..everyone do care of each others although we are from difference CSS..Saya sayang kalian:-)

lets move on..This one during WWF last year..2010..its means no longer joining as participant, but as the committee..so, sampul semakin nipis, & mesej dia pun lain2 sudah bunyi.ahaha..Antaranya:d

• you make me feel at home
• thanks 4 everything
• thanks a lot
• friend forever

and my faveret:

• kaulah paling best (untuk orang yg tulis ni,saya sayang ko..haha..)

antara "nota2 cinta":-)

macam-macam bunyi mesej, macam2 gaya orang yang saya jumpa time ni, but despite of all that differences, it make us really a SUPERB COMBINATION..i know, i gonna miss all this later..padahal ada lagi satu semester sebelum grade..ahaha..sorry, tadi tgok orang konvo..[mode konvo.aha]

:-|

~sometimes in life there is a thing that we really wanted to have but we can't,and  it even worst when we cannot escape ourself from the shadow of that thing~dut2~


i wish life is like a fairy tale, every story will end happily ever after..but, I know, i'm the main character in my own story, and i will make sure, mine will end like a fairy tale:-)

I MISS YOU BADLY..OK..BYE~~

URGENT::1-BLANKET 4 JAPAN

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first of all, big thanks to those that supported and donate in this project so far.God bless you upon your kindness. 2 DAYS left dear friends to lend our helping hands..Lets join our hand together and help Japanese by participating in this project..read my previous entry to know more..

If you wish to donate, you may contact me through my facebook or email me at d-ut-dut@hotmail.com..Maybe you cannot give me the blanket because of distance & time constrain, bank in your money to me, and I will help you to get 1..budget:rm13 each blanket.Lebih dialu-alukan..But, make sure to settle all this BEFORE FRIDAY 25/3/2011..i will post the photos of all colecting blankets ~sebagai bukti ..and if you email me, leave your comment at my chat box, to alert me-)

For mo info go to..

1)1 blanket 4 japan official web

2)1 blanket 4 japan facebook page

This will be an opportunity for us to feel that we are contributing in a significant way in making

a difference in the lives of others in severe need.

WAIT NO MORE,ACT NOW!!

1 BLANKET 4 JAPAN

Photos from http://www.facebook.com/pages/Blankets-4-Japan-Surviving-Tsunami-2011/137264446342096

URGENT!1 WEEK PROJECT..1 BLANKET 4 JAPAN..1 blanket 4 japan adalah satu usaha yang dijalankan untuk membantu rakyat Jepun yang terselamat dari Tsunami yang melanda baru-baru ini..Nasib rakyat Jepun memang malang, ibarat "sudah jatuh ditimpa tangga". Bayangkan, selepas dihancurkan oleh gempa bumi dengan magnitud 8.9 skala richter beserta ombak besar Tsunami, mereka diduga lagi dengan letupan loji nuklear dan terus-terusan diduga lagi dengan cuaca sejuk yang melampau.It is heart wrenching to see on the news that thousands more lives of tsunami victims could be lost due to freezing temperatures in Japan.Letak diri anda di tempat mereka..how would you feel, from one problem to another problem, they really need our support right now...thanks and well done to the one who started this 1 blanket 4 Japan project.

Now I urge everyone:

1) Donate as much as you can.If there is 20 or 30 of us and each of us donate at least 1 blanket, we already saves 30 life..

2) Spread and promote this project to everyone.Join our hands together.

3)Pray for Japanese!

IF YOU CONCERN BOUT THIS PEOPLE SUFFERING, CONTACT ME THROUGH FACEBOOK, OR EMAIL ME AT d-ut-dut@hotmail.com

THIS IS ONLY LAST UNTIL FRIDAY 25 march 2011..on Saturday,26 march 2011 all the blankets need to be send out..

*** saya rasa ini kewajipan saya untuk menolong, selagi belum dapat kumpul sebanyak yang di target, i won't stop..and I'm glad, if you the one who read this are with me!!

For mo info go to..

1)1 blanket 4 japan official web

2)1 blanket 4 japan facebook page

Photos from http://www.facebook.com/pages/Blankets-4-Japan-Surviving-Tsunami-2011/137264446342096

3 in 1-mjcc dinner, borneo night, botb..

3 hectic weeks in a row and here all in 1 post....

5 March-MJCC Dinner

This is the 1st MJCC Dinner I attend, and I'm the emcee for this dinner together with hot

Othniel.This dinner was held at Restoran Salim, Perling Johor. This place was so special, with

simple decoration,open air and located near the sea, I found peace here.The theme was hawaian and thanks to my beloved friend, Jok for that wonderful pareo.Highlight of the dinner:

1)celebrating final year student that will end their study soon

2)gather all MJCC members, students, alumni, cmt

3)farewell party for Fr.Jojo as he will transfer to Philipine soon.

don't want to talk too much, lets the photos desribe all..

Gifters

all that present that night..x cukup space..ahaha

our beloved Fr.Jojo..gonna miss him so much..uhuhu

the emcee-me & Othniel..

wif c dayung anthea..

the foods..gila..5 star hotel punya standard..

MJCC Dinner 2011 committee member

pareo that turn to a nice dress..thanks Jok for this wonderful pareo..

12 March - UTM Borneo Night

Borneo night ni first event yang menggabungkan Perwakilan Mahasiswa Sarawak(MASSA) dan Perwakilan Mahasiswa Sabah (PERMAS).Diadakan bertujuan untuk membawa budaya Sabah Sarawak ke UTM, disamping mengumpulkan anak-anak Borneo UTM.Again, I'm the emcee for this event,juga bersama Othniel, n two others emcee Iffa and Chris..hehehe..lebih 200 orang juga yang datang malam tu..meriah.meriah sungguh..

ok, apa yang menarik tyme borneo nite ni:

1) YB Fadillah, Timbalan Menteri Sains, Teknologi dan Inovasi sanggup turun padang tuk jadi perasmi. Yang best, YB sporting ..YB round dari satu meja ke satu meja, beramah mesra dengan semua yang ada disana..paling last, YB bagi satu spesel lucky draw, & pemenang dapat return tiket jb-kuchng..paling mantap, bila YB pun ikut bertandak..terbaik YB..TNC pun happening, ikut bertandak juga:-)

2) Semua yang datang happening.Dengan segala fesyen baju, tak kira tradisional atau moden..bila main jak muzik, semua bangun dan menari..this how people at borneo celebrating our moments.hehe..

3)Persembahan semua mantap2..tak kira persembahan band, tarian, nyanyion solo, semua awesome!

4)Makanan sedap, menurut kawan-kawan, saya tak berkesempatan makan sangat, emcee kan..sempat test berokbok (makanan bugis) jak sikit..laksa sarawak taste dia kurang cikit saya dengar, yalah bukan ori dari sarawak kan.hehehe..tapi takpa, janji licin juga orang sapu..hehe.

4)Borneo night buat saya rasa di Borneo sekejap..terubat homesick..

klah, pun tak nak cerita banyak, gambar menceritakan segalanya..hehe

with Milton an Jimmy

with ex-KMLian..

the beauty of Malaysia..from left me-orang ulu,luvli-sari,anthea-bidayuh , del-bidayuh, pat-bidayuh..

the dancers

Gifters mengganas d Borneo Night...

with Cam-sabahan attire & jimmy-chinese attire

MASSSAan..hihi

dengan cik bung..

me, jim, othniel..

dengan c superstar azri..main susah mok bergambar dengan dia ni.ramai yg dengki tgok.ahahaha..

always found that I'm beautiful in any traditional custome.ahahaha...proud to be the part of this beautiful culture.::mode masuk bakul angkat sendiri.aha

20 March-MJCC Battle Of The Band

Held at St.Henry Hall, Batu Pahat, this 3rd MJCC Battle of the Band(BOTB) really painted a wonderful moment to be remembered. With Kelly as our Bos terchenta, this event when well, walaupun sempat terdelay gara-gara blackout sekejap..8 band were participated...the unique thing about BOTB this year is that every group need to sing 2 songs with related to spiritual and humanity,and, one must be a new composed song by that band...with the theme M.ake U.s S.ing I.n C.hrist, everyone really enjoy the moments.x puas-puas, saya & Othniel jadi emcee lagi ni hari.ahahha..harap2 lpas ni, ada junior yg tampil ganti postion ni k..mok pencen suda saya ni.ahaha..I'm also in a band , the awesome band,the "Blackpepper" as vocalist..saya nyanyi tak berapa bagus hari tu, cause cannot hear my own voice..need more vocal classes..hehe..but never mind, the most important thing is I really enjoy while i'm performing, and we grab the 2nd place and "The Best Performance"..semua band pun all out hari tu, & rupanya, ramai yang berbakat di MJCC..harap2, keluarlah satu album MJCC lepas ni

:-)..bha, jom layan gambar...

1st PLACE-ETERNITY from ROCK

2nd PLACE-BLACKPEPPER from GIFT

3rd PLACE-3D from GIFT

SEVEN SEAS from ROCK

OFFER TO YOU from GIFT..i want their t-shirt..uhuhu

GIBBOR-GIBBOR from ROCK..mantap suara vokalis dia:-)

D'SYCAMORE from LIFE, 1 & only represent Melaka side..

SEVENTY TIMES SEVEN from GIFT..semua junior kecuali....kamu pun tahu yang mana..ahhaa

BEST KEYBOARDIST~Alister (SEVENTY TIMES SEVEN)

BEST BASSIST~Dennis(3D)

BEST LEAD-Bobby(OFFER TO YOU)

BEST RYTHM-Claudius(3D)

BEST DRUMMER-sa lupa nama dia,sorry..(GIBBOR-GIBBOR)

BEST VOCALIST-Rio & Kelvin (ETERNITY)..sorry menyelit.aha

BEST PERFORMANCE-BLACKPEPPER..x sia2 head banging, melompat2, berbaring, & ada slide show..

blackpepper & wider brothers

bukan main jerit, x masuk key pun.,.ahaha...saya mksd sa..karl nyanyi mantap!

matai..ahaha

ramai kan..

pasukan sorak..

performance by cmt-mark & estelle..

performance by cmt-edrin& chalana

penyokong tegar ..hehe..tq dtg dr jauh.konvoi keta dr scc..

3 minggu ni memang minggu yang busy, sampai saya demam..tapi, minggu2 ni jugalah yang meninggalkan seribu satu kenangan buat saya..rasa semakin singkat masa untuk bersama teman-teman.uhuhu..gonna miss ol this moment..(macam final sem suda kan,.haha)

bha..sekian dulu..

photos by Rodney..thanks ya..

salam sayang