Just friend.....

"Sometimes, the best way to be close to someone is to being friends. Nothing more, nothing less..."

picked this from my fren's FB status today, & strongly agree with this statement.Why, cause I experienced this before, not once, but twice..

Once,lama dulu... I have a friend, very close friend.He is my shoulder to cry on, everytime I'm in trouble , first person that I will told is him.Everyday, we will messages each other,saying "hi", "good morning", what we doing, or what happened to each other.That become our routine, and yeah, seriously I enjoy this friendship very much. Its good to know that someone is with you anytime, in your happy or even in your sad time.He really that type of friend. I'm very lucky to have him as friend, a close friend.

But then, who knows, something happened and changed everything. My crazy feeling ruins our friendship. I started to ask for more..more than a friendship..Yes,I fall in love with him..I admit, I still young that time, and dengan bodohnya, I told him, i love him more than a friend..My God, Emie, perigi cari timba kan.but, good also i told him, if not, I will regret it until now..eh, back to topic..After that, everything changes, he start to run away from me, neglect my every SMS and I know, by that time, I not only ruined my friendship, but also lost my close friend..And, until now,kami jarang sudah bercontact.so, conclusion..

"Sometimes, the best way to be close to someone is to being friends. Nothing more, nothing less..."

Hidup memang banyak pilihan and yet, kita tidak boleh tamak..Hargai apa yang telah kita miliki, sebelum kita meminta lebih..Kalau sememangnya kita sudah ditakdirkan untuk memiliki "sesuatu" itu, masanya akan tiba tanpa perlu kita meminta-minta.God has planned everything ,wonderfully for us...Semoga Emie semakin matang ya Tuhan..amen.


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with love,

emie..